The odds are definitely not in OPs favor for something like this working for him. I am not quite a spouse of a doctor. He really was awful to women and should've come with a warning sticker. Because what are Mormons about. He had no idea what he was getting himself into. Yup, know how that feels.
Have those candid conversations with HIM, ponder, and listen closely for the guidance of the Holy Ghost. Hi, I am so glad to know that I am not alone. It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church. Doctor's often set their priorities as: When I give my husband the "busy as hell" attitude he gets worried about our relationship. So I've been dating my boyfriend for more than a year. In our church, women are treated with more respect, and are considered to have a literal free ticket to heaven, simply bu because their female. We have a happy marriage. It's satire, but this is all stuff you may hear at Thanksgiving dinner.
If you go yourself, you'll see - those people are good people. It won't be easy. It's so sad to think that people so young will be stuck wearing 19th century undies when they should enjoy their years of being young and stylish. This came about after many hours and many days of prayer, scripture study, going to the temple, receiving a priesthood blessing, and speaking with people I greatly trust my mom, especially. I would show her this recent post for example: Her family will also be thinking about this and will talk to you about it when you spend time with them. And that my friend, is just a hint of the extent of the brain wash that Mormons experience.
Mormonism is an all-in religion. How to Win Over a Guy. That said, I like to hope that love can be more powerful than belief. When I expressed how upset and sad I was he told me simply that he works hard and that is how he wants to spend his money and what he plans to do.