Look, as a shelia, its no different from a bloke. But I'm trying to determine how much of that behavior is truly down to his profession, and how much of it is him not being very into me or just selfish and unwilling to compromise even if that selfishness is a byproduct of his residency, and not how he would be in other circumstances. Sadly, I'm not sure at this point. But it is luck of the draw. MinsPackage speaks the truth. And if you can make it to the Tree of Life and still be with your partner, guess what. Maybe he found a nice Mormon girl after all. I don't think we could have a real conversation about those points either. I am very active with my work, social life, and activities and independent.
Hopefully, it will give a little insight into Mormonism's insidiousness. Then you might want to talk about all the things her church requires. When she goes on a mission, she will go through the temple which means she will be wearing garments. There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime. I believe that we are all on different paths, but that it is possible for us to travel on different paths side-by-side. I really admire all of you here, who are married but live a very lonely live. The thing is I know il always be alone and we'll he's a little older than I am. There are some left but most people don't even realize the thousands of dollars a year that go into keeping your job such as license renewels sometimes for several states if your practice in on a border and has more than one siteCME, malpractice and other insurance, hospital privileges or several if your practice has to cover several surgical sites and facilities in order to stay openetc. I'm doing the best I can, I try to travel to visit family but again it would be just me and my son.
Drinkers tend to rely on drink before they can have fun. It helps put my small, first world problems into perspective. I'm going to disagree with what some of the people have said. The importance of modesty.
Otherwise you risk having an awkward mix between dating and hanging out, which can be uncomfortable for those involved. I don't think you necessarily need to cut ties with her. I decided that if the church taught the general principle that couples should be married in the temple and that was not possible for me if I married this girlthen I should see if my choice would be an exception to the rule. The standard principles of day game apply. Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. So do you just never give anything back to SOs in terms of time or small gestures. Is the answer really just communication and uninterrupted alone time. Alot of TBM women won't even consider dating non members. It made me so very sad.
