I learned to read by reading the Book of Mormon. NeverMo in CA Date: NeverMo in CA Wrote: I've read many of the stories here and I know the religion is toxic. She is going on a mission which means she is heavily invested in performing according to the cultural expectations. Here is hoping I manage to land myself one of them and preferably a single one!!. Found this blog just now after searching "married to a surgeon". We still joke about the latter. Thanks for letting us know. Take what you read with a grain of salt. She might want to follow the 'virgin until marriage' part, or she may personally decide to forego following that in secret.
I learned how truly very Mormon I really am, to the deepest part of my soul. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. Even if you are looking towards marriage, it can be better to hold off on more serious activities until a couple of dates to make sure you both feel the relationship is moving in the right direction.
What a miserable state. Understand that it's their belief, and make plans for any of the other 6 days instead. The thing is, even though no one else trusted my decision, I prayed about it daily for our entire relationship. I also remember my father a stake president telling me the night before I got married that every single couple he had counseled through marriage struggles were not reading their scriptures or praying together every night. A couple of quick thoughts: December 12, at 9: December 13, at 2: December 13, at 8: December 13, at 4: December 13, at 6: December 14, at 6: December 17, at 7: December 19, at December 19, at 1: December 19, at 4: December 22, at 9: December 27, at 7: Also, be prepared for Mormon jokes. My husband not only supports me going to church he encourages it because he knows that it is a part of me and makes me happy.
In five short days. Yes, talk talk talk about everything yoiu can think of, but beyond that I would suggest pre-marital counseling from people knowledgeable in each tradition at play this will probably take two different counselors, who might be faith-based. I hate to say it, but if you are serious, go explore her world. She's most likely secretly playing out fantasies of converting you, marrying you in a Mormon temple, and having a very Mormon life, OP. We learn sooooooo much from each other. Keep the relationship casual. Either you are just fun for now or she wants to change you. I am a happily married mono-faith guy who has no testimony of dusted base boards. Help answer questions Learn more. When my nephews started looking at porn on computers everybody blamed me when it wasn't me.