If you remain active, Church service is very demanding of our lives в not a Sunday thing. I suppose it depends on your personality. For me, one of those bouncers is my marriage to the most wonderful woman alive. Many men have begun leaving the Church in their early twenties as the mission has become more important. And even then it will put Huge stress on it and on you for the rest of your life. After his mission he lost faith on everything for some reasons. Going along with her cult might feel fine when it is just you in her, but if you have kids, it will be very different.
With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. It seems like a minor point, but I have noticed that every Mormon girl who disobeys the Mormon direction to avoid coffee has something majorly wrong with her. And we are not bloody married yet. I've heard way too many stories of people breaking up with amazing people and they end up alone or in a less happy relationship. It has been a couple of months since I have seen him or even really talked to him. The hospital had become, by his own admission, his "family", and he had virtually abandoned us to this demanding career. It is the greatest sadness of her life. She never mentioned TSCC. She was so sad over what she sacrificed it just haunted everyone on Reddit. He will not be permitted to bless the child in front of the ward, for instance, so you will have to choose to forego that ritual or find someone else to stand in for the father, which he may not be comfortable with.
You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church: It's cruel to suggest it. He is married to his job right now. There are so many names in both English and Chinese. I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up.
If you try to deconvert her I suggest indirectly at first. If you like her, and I'm assuming you do, I would suggest you continue the relationship and see how things pan out. Keep yourself busy and do what you would normally be doing besides sitting around waiting for a guy to call. Will things get better.