I know many other nurses that also married young docs, only to have the marriage fail. I do not understand what makes these nurses think that they have a place in his life. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. Her Religion is the single most important thing in her life. Welcome to TwoXChromosomes, a subreddit for both serious and silly content, and intended for women's perspectives. For any woman who does not want to sacrifice her career goals….
Fall in love, learn, make some mistakes, laugh, serve other people, reproduce, and let the whole story start again. I made a conscious decision to marry outside the church for my own reasons. Most want nothing to do with the church. I do wonder if you ask this blog just to get supporting advice. Honestly, unless you want to convert and: And, if she does claim those things don't matter, be prepared to find out how much they really do after you've married her. Sadly, the general consensus of "convert or nope out" sounds like what will end up happening.
Why would you behave any different now. Love and support them just as you would if your husband was a carpenter. She was fine marrying in an LDS church instead of the temple, didn't want to convert me, and most importantly didn't try to change my beliefs or opinions. Because she will think that all of a sudden she is going to hell for being human, that's mormon sexual repression. Until you do he's a free agent and in high demand.
Somehow I never believed any of that; I wanted a career and a small family and never believed religion was a way to identify good character. This means no swearing, loud talking, or making offensive jokes. I know a lot of Mormons who were also not raised on fear and guilt and strict gender rolesвbut I was, as were many of my peers. And no one has the right to judge you for your decision. Yes, thank you for your support Autumn. Oh this is a great set of questions. I have read some of the comment here and would like to share my experience. The house is perfect, with nothing out of place.