With minimal support on my side and going against everything I had grown up learning, I had to trust my relationship with God. I dated many LDS guys before him. Except his wife was and still is a witch. It's winter here and I figured she was layering for warmth. I don't think anyone here intended a dismissal of the girl as a human being by stating such. We had lots of sex and fun. Take issues as they arise, rather than throwing away what could be a good experience for you and her based off of what might happen. Not in endless discussions of temple marriage, not ever.
I don't want to give up as I think it is still the stress of the exams that is motivating her response and that given time, we could work things out and have a very special and loving relationship. Don't spend money on somebody else' Wife. He also has sacrificed a more easy lifestyle. So basically we were lies to for years. There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime. Her Religion is more important than you will ever be Her Religion comes first and deep down, she will come to hate you for not accepting joining her religion. It requires a special kind of patience, and I think that the phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder" has to be something you can relate to. I'm worried this nightmare journey has destroyed my sense of self and confidence. The independent work is just as important as the work we do as a couple.
I met my wife at the age of She literally showed up at my apartment one night, wholly unexpected. Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well. Each to their own though. It does not come from common religion or personality or even values; it only comes through mutual self transcendence. He totally blew me off and said "blah blah blah" and it was so early in our relationship that I was taken aback and didn't push the issue then and there. When my nephews started looking at porn on computers everybody blamed me when it wasn't me. As I started to date and fall in love with my husband, almost everyone I knew was against it. The fact that she is dating an atheist non-Mormon shows pretty serious lack of conformity already. It is not the norm.
BUT it could easily have gone the other way. For example, the irish, polish and the italians basically intermarried. If she won't reason with your investigation of the church, nope on out and go on your merry way. MinsPackage speaks the truth. Even more lonely for myself as I have no one to complain this situation to. I was recently married to my husband in the Twin Falls, Idaho temple for time and all eternity. As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. Did he get kicked out of the church for marrying you. Welcome to TwoXChromosomes, a subreddit for both serious and silly content, and intended for women's perspectives.