You should expect that this will define your relationship with her. I have always worked full-time and no employers ever give you any lenience. Married to a Surgeon as well. Go for the joy, the experiences, the children to come. I am married to a DH and what helps me the most is knowing my whole life revolves around him and medicine always come first. Made many attempts to do things together, but always get excuses of being tired or not interested. I have been doubting if this relationship is going to work because I hardly ever talk to him so my first reaction is okay who else is he seeing??. As your future self, I say this with the utmost respect and admiration: Two peas in a pod. Ignore the busy-bodies who want to condemn your significant other. I'm on the same page as you.
It's easy to forget why I chose to be with him in the first place. Disney gives them the fantasy where they can easily achieve a standard of perfection with low risk. Have those candid conversations with HIM, ponder, and listen closely for the guidance of the Holy Ghost. I knew that I couldn't possibly be alone. Jan 10, 0. But I could make it very romantic indeed. Because she will think that all of a sudden she is going to hell for being human, that's mormon sexual repression.
In the meantime, she will probably view you as being less than a Mormon man who is a faithful priesthood holder. I've never understood that bit of the LDS culture. Make them feel special. I had some idea of his life at the time of wedding, but this is tough. Better to now what you're going into in a relationship with a doctor or would-be-doctor. There is no such thing as a perfect Mormon family- regardless of whether the parents are sealed or not.
For instance, you probably want your children to be baptized into the Mormon faith when they are eight в is your fiancee okay with that. He actually wanted them to be active in a religion and thought this was a good idea. I thought it was beautiful that they included him in the circle, even though he was not a Priesthood holder. I've told her that but maybe she doesn't believe me. Racial differences can be very trivialвthey really didn't come up much for my parents, for exampleвand are basically false differences. What if love is looking someone in the eye and saying, "You're making the biggest mistake of your life.