Does your new girlfriend have eight brothers and sisters. At 30, you just give up. So you stay calm, stay pleasant, and try not to let it eat you alive. I don't know if living vicariously through him will be enough. I know I am a strong person but it really does suck sometimes.
Even Mormon girls who marry non-Mormons want great dads for their kids, and they are oriented to having kids, sometimes many kids. I think he tries to listen but doesn't know how. Now I feel like a stepford wife.
Subreddit Rules Please see above link for full rules. I'm so sick of waiting around every night and weekend to see if he will have a minute for me. My husband is a surgical oncologist. I've started to get annoyed when close friends approach him for medical guidance. My kids have run as far away from medicine as possible in terms of a career and my daughter only dates people who have balance in their lives. We see each other about once every ten days, or times a week at most when his schedule is lighter. Congratulations on understanding that and avoiding problems. The two of you can get married in the temple and live together forever for eternity. If we can say them together, great; if not. Someone or something always has his attention and focus.
You do not want hear in jeans if you are planning to eat at a fancy restaurant. My father told him it's never too late to leave whether we are married with kids or just engaged. I met this girl a while ago and we really hit it off. I hated it so much, in fact, that I ran off to China. I think your response is Bang on.