When you mix cultural groups you increase the difficulty. Why am I still with him. Because she will think that all of a sudden she is going to hell for being human, that's mormon sexual repression. I tried my best, every bit of me…. I don't think I could let that happen. So, we decide to take a "break" because there was so much tension and resentment in the relationship.
And you know what. There will be struggles in marriage and childrearing whether or not he is a member. I got married to a Mormon woman. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon. It will only get worse. Hell we haven't even gone in a date yet. In the end people have to make their own decisions. I disagree with the doctrines and practices of the LDS church. If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. Some of the most wonderful lesbian sex I've ever had was with a TBM girl.
The standard principles of day game apply. Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me. I agree we shouldn't continue if we can't accept each other as we are.
Follow your heart and live life with no regrets. If she can accept me for who I am and what I believe, knowing that I'll never give her the eternal family she wants, then maybe we'll be ok. Now that I am married, it has become more apparent that his previous comments about not minding if his wife has a career, were not entirely accurate. April 05, There are ways to avoid blue balls ya know. He is not a member and has told me he is not going to convert. First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me.