Of course I feel slighted at times, but I check myself and remember that my SO is doing his best given all his demands. She's willing to talk about anything I find directly on LDS. Again, reiterating it, don't expect a decade's worth of time with her, but enjoy her good while you two are together. I guess the only risk is your husband having an affair with someone at work. But I'm wondering about one thing: Do I have cause to be scared out of my mind, or should I just take a chill pill. If everything she is taught is correct and the Mormon church is "true" she should be able to research any anti-Mormon books or movies and prove their criticisms are lies. In the interfaith marriages that work where one is LDS and the other is not religious, it only works out when the LDS partner is not fully a believer anymore.




The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. In the end, God is a just God. He sees all families being able to stay together. As a non member you can not take her to the celestial kingdom to live with God and get your own worlds to populate with her. They are exhausted, under tons of pressure, stressed, and expected to be studying hours after their long shifts.
Try to find out his schedule in detail. While I do get to accompany him to various dinners and parties, we hardly ever have time together just us, and when we do, he just wants to relax over dinner and decompress. Everyone has their own sins and impure thoughts they need to overcome. What a bozza topic. He will have to be okay with being thought not good enough to help in circumstances in which you believe that priesthood power is needed. Cold approaches on Mormon girls are challenging.
We Finally spent a week alone together for our anniversary and it was glorious. That settles it for me. But it is important to be ruthlessly honest with yourself about how you feel about it. Glad we can be your connection to society. But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs. Expect her to either write you off during her mission or pressure you to show interest in the church. The man had essentially been in acadamics his whole life and was emotionally immature.