That's my two cents. Consider also the evolving perspective of the potential husband. I understand in some measure of the pressure on the provider, but this profession was their choice. Please start another thread and continue the conversation. It's a fairly new relationship and I don't want to jump to any conclusions. She will likely want you to convert to fix the family. It CAN work, to be frank.
He often tells me how happy he is to return to a clean home, warm meal, and me in the doorway-and I think that makes residency all the more bearable for him. You should also be willing to date other people. Their marriage falls apart because they are both working way too many hours, and they lose their way in life. Jan 10, 0. I google searched for support with tears running down my face. My husband had quite a late start in his career; he will be almost 40 by the time he starts residency so I feel we are already way behind in that sense, but also he has had a very hard time getting into residency as he went to med school outside the US. It would put him in a position of feeling less and being looked down on. Never ask vague questions and give her definite options instead. I gave her a piece of my mind as my home is much happier and healthy now then when I was married to my x. When we're together, everything is good.
I've had a super hard time finding folks who understand what I am feeling I have been married to an orthopedic surgeon for 35 years. This blog accommodates some frank admissions about that which is less than wonderful about LDS. Ask questions, try to find out as much as you can. My faith, while less orthodox, has certainly matured. You will have to make sacrifice your happiness a little. Stopped answering texts and calls, refused to give me my belongings that he moved up to the new place, and not to mention he broke up with me over the phone after all of those years. Pickings are slim at church. We agree on honesty and kindness, it doesn't matter what inspires us to pursue that.
I am a lawyers wife. I keep busy with my own activities, but it becomes really hard to have a date night. As your future self, I say this with the utmost respect and admiration: Two peas in a pod. And that my friend, is just a hint of the extent of the brain wash that Mormons experience. She has encouraged me to read LDS. His hectic job aside, he is an amazing man, very loving and family oriented, which is what I have always wanted. How will this all be once we have children?. Have lots of sex. He knows how I feel about spending time together.