However, "medical families" can work. The extent of other physical activity depends on what you both want from the relationship, though in general the Mormon Church frowns on sexual contact even beyond intercourse. Besides the obvious brain damage that you will be made to suffer your entire married life, there are future kids to think about. This is tough enough when the kids are babies, but when they're older - teenagers - you'll get to tackle all of the hormone-fueled angst, drama, school difficulties, homework, school activities, and be the scapegoat when the kids get mad at you. I hate to say it, but if you are serious, go explore her world. Build a life of your own but, make them your priority.
What my boyfriend and I used to do when we were long distance is write really, crazy long emails to each other almost as long as my blog posts. All people see is the money and that's it. It seems like mormons in particular are even more crazy than the majority of crazy religious people, and the manipulation and treatment of people who wish to think for themselves and challenge their beliefs is really frightening. Go on your different ways as friends and don't expect your relationship to go anywhere. I'd just like to add that unless you're happy being with her as a full believing Mormon, don't stick around in the hopes that she'll de-convert. It helps put my small, first world problems into perspective. OP, I'm not a med student, just a plain old grad student. Good communication, love, support and understanding are the things you should consider. God knows the big picture.
I love talking religion with him and I have never pressured him to change his habits or anything else about him. In the long run, being married to a nonmember has made me a better person. No I dont think so. Good thing is you can have multiple wives in heaven if you become exalted. She won't look at anything "anti-mormon" but if it's on LDS. Never ask vague questions and give her definite options instead.
All you have to do is be honest about your username here and you'll never see her again. It will be nice to have time to do things for myself. Plan on her family trying to torpedo your relationship if you don't convert. Does it mostly depend on his specialty or just how he prioritizes things. Much better to marry in the faith if possible.
