Calls during thanks giving and Christmas makes me really upset. Life will chuck all sorts of bouncers at you. They know that they are the best. So it is going to be over anyway.
What's NOT to like about being the wife of a medical doctor. This was the biggest one for me. Every bishop, new set of missionaries, home teacher, etc. If your date has been an active member of the Church who is following these moral guidelines, then she will not be willing to involve herself in a sexual relationship with you. In fact, the church is designed to help people come unto Christ, who is the only one who can change our hearts and help us overcome ourselves to come back to him. Forty plus years later I met my incredibly wonderful fabulous Mormon husband. Getting things done, solve every problems, started my day with long a to-do list daily.
I grew away from mine as my husband then-boyfriend slowly grew closer to his Mormon faith. Just going to jump in and then jump out I remember how idealistic I was back then, but here's reality: You will be without him most of the time. The bottom line is that you are setting yourself up for difficult times ahead. Make arrangements to send her to your cousins town and let your cousin know she will be visiting. If he says he wants to keep things casual, head for the hills - he's the latter and he doesn't appreciate you.
Still, I would be interested to hear your perspective and that of your readers. Because of the nature of this job, it was not uncommon for him to be at the hospital overnight or to be called back in for an emergency surgery. If you were the one who did the asking, it is simply chivalrous and gentlemanly for you to pay for dinner, the movie, or whatever else you do. Public displays of affection PDA show a lack of self-control.