I am not sorry I married outside the LDS faith. When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful. But he does want to get married to and to have kids. It's a great idea to know where you stand so that you'll be prepared when this comes up in conversation. I have so often heard wow you married a doctor The truth is I will always come second to his job and he will never know how lonely I am for him to put me first.
It really can be that simple. I have no idea if he stayed. Even after being in a relationship I have to take all the decision alone. If you try to deconvert her I suggest indirectly at first. If she is motivated enough to want to go on a mission, she will likely not settle for having a second class "eternal companion" you who is a convert or one who cannot be sealed to her for eternity. You're walking into a den of crazy, tbm bishop's daughter, I hate to say it but you should really be contemplative about what you're stepping into. She asked me the other night how it's possible for me to be such a good person when I don't believe in god. These are also only the American statistics.
Work out as many as you can before marriage happens. Sadly, my ward shuns us. He is studying to get into a residency program and I struggle to get his time. I was definitely taking the "Tough love" approach because I've read countless times on this and other boards, how Mormons claimed that they were cool with their SO not being Mormon, and that they weren't, themselves, orthodox. I want to serve a mission in my old age with my husband. If you do attend parties like that, expect her to drink 7-Up and volunteer as the designated driver, and to be completely repulsed if you drink too much. Sounds like classic "flirt to convert. I'll give him a chance to fix it by talking to him about it, but the more that I think about how he has treated me the more I just feel ready to check out of the whole situation. Welcome to the future.
But this phase isn't going to be short. We just celebrated our 11th wedding anniversary We have 5 children and like so many I feel alone most days. Never marry someone with the goal of a post-marriage conversion. To others making this consideration, I would certainly suggest that you converse with your Father in Heaven about this important choice. If she says yes. I was lucky with my TBM. I just started dating this guy and he is not only in the army, but a doctor. I think that if these two really care about each other that she should be told to take a moment and ask herself how she would feel if they break up over this and years later she finally researches her religion.