You will be able to best gauge where her beliefs stand in regards to the church if you listen to how she describes her mission. Think about what you want in a relationship. Good Questions to Ask Someone. You join the LDS Church. But she understands that I am committed to the Gospel, and will never leave it either. She wants the eternal temple marriage and you will be her long term project TL;DR I considered ending my marriage of Save yourself pain by getting out before it gets harder. True Believer Mos base their actions on a set of priorities that make no sense to Nomos. I give input into our activities for dates, and this works out well since we're very compatible and like spending leisure time the same way. The hospital had become, by his own admission, his "family", and he had virtually abandoned us to this demanding career. Ask her rhetorically if she would dump her religion for her true love.
I'm so sorry to hear this. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. Have those candid conversations with HIM, ponder, and listen closely for the guidance of the Holy Ghost. It was more about my own spirituality and our relationship in our marriage. Just talk to her honestly, and if you have to, use the old wonder of logic. We are only engaged and as much as I love him, I can't handle the pain of watching my goals and dreams wash away to be at his disposal. My next serious boyfriend was raised Methodist but considered himself non-denominational Christian and people would comment on that instead of his character. He never has time for me.
I was happy to read your blog. And Mormons were basically encouraged to marry other mormons. Know that you are playing a game aka dating mormon girls that has low odds of success. You've stated that she had numerous guys break up with her after she took sex off the table.
Are you going to keep the sabbath holy as a family, or is he going to take the kids out for pizza after church, leaving you home to observe alone. I am really in love with him. Mark an envelope to be opened at different times throughout the day. There is no way out, either I need to continue to sacrifice myself or get out of this relationship. The woman I have feelings for is conflicted on her religion in regards to me. We have been married 2 decades in a new city away from family and friends and I am this close pinches fingers to starting a local Facebook Club for people like us. When you are disappointed that he is called into the hospital, focus on what he is providing for someone in need.