These same principles have helped build strong, successful religious communities for thousands of years. And on my part, I felt I needed to go out and live harder, party more, be more social, etc. He never has time for me. Since internship started, I always feel disappointed with my fiance'. That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. This is normal for residents. I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot. Thanks for the help. Sounds like classic "flirt to convert.
Sure it's lonely and hard work being a "single parent". Ultimately we broke up. They must refrain not only from sex, but also passionate kissing or similar physical contact, or any act that arouses such feelings. I feel very discouraged. I hope you can make this work out. If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. Medicine is not an easy lifestyle for anyone, and sometimes the only thing that gets me through is knowing that at the end of the day or twoI get to come home to my loving husband. If you are dating a Mormon man or woman, be genuinely interested in their religion. The thing is I know il always be alone and we'll he's a little older than I am.
I guess the only risk is your husband having an affair with someone at work. You may look on here and see all of us, but a lot of us got out much much older. If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. So, now I'm battling interview season with the fourth year dates and beginning of residency with the labor day date. Husband has affair with me, after telling me that he and his wife have grown apart, and we were together for five years. Disney gives them the fantasy where they can easily achieve a standard of perfection with low risk. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset. I would think that a comprise between you getting missionary discussions and her reading the CES letter would be even. Or does this sound more like a conscious choice he's making not to get invested in this.
Many men have begun leaving the Church in their early twenties as the mission has become more important. Other lazy Mormon girls turn feminist, many thousands of them. I kept thinking things would get better at some point, but they didn't. Dude just to summarize what I think is the majority of the comments. If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself. Today, at my ward sacrament meeting, in the back section of the chapel where I was sitting, all the women except one were Mormon wives in interfaith families. I am literally too lazy to get up and get the computer. Sometimes I wonder if it's "Better to end it now and cut off the limb and let the stump heal". The religious differences between you two are a deal-breaking fault.