Ask questions, try to find out as much as you can. He suffers from cybersexual addiction and feels as though he can have and woo every woman he wants in this forum. This woman is a human being, not a caricature of a TBM. Break up with her. How convenient for him. And you are right about people telling you that you are lucky that you married a doctor and should not complain. I have done it many times and the repercussions are that they treat me very poorly, but th. I'm not married to a doctor, but have been with one through her training and early years 5 years - she's currently in her first year of speciality training as a paediatrician this is in the UK by the way. I know my husband appreciates me looking into it because he knows I am doing it to gain an understanding into the culture he was raised in. But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic.
I dated non mormon men. I've moved to be with him for med school, then we moved again for residency and just moved again for fellowship. As I started to date and fall in love with my husband, almost everyone I knew was against it. I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue the relationship, but I'd only recommend marrying her if she leaves the church because she discovers it's not true. I love his way of loving me,his compassion towards our relationship,his loyalty ,reason for mine marrying him not for his paycheck but I guess I also need a companion,a life partner,someone who will be beside me when ill be needing him the most. Only idiots are unfriendly to non-Mormon spouses. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced. Heavenly Father will give you guidance if you listen with an open heart and contrite spirit as always.
To those asking about pre-med boyfriends, mcat, first year, med school boyfriends: You never accomplish half what you set out to do, and taking practice exams is the most anxiety provoking experience. He was not a prominent man in the church. If you are willing to understand and accept these, whether or not you are a Mormon, you can have a fun time dating Mormon girls. Personally I have a rule that I will not enter a relationship with a believing Mormon. Ultimately we broke up. MinsPackage speaks the truth. I guess I was just hoping there was way for it to work.
This was hugely disappointing for him and created some very tense times. Is it naive to think we could raise our children to fully participate in two different faiths. But it is luck of the draw. We had a long distant relationship for 3 years. If you are willing to wait, then well and good; otherwise, it is best to move on.
