While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. We do have cancelled Skype dates and rescheduled phone calls but when I really need him he puts his needs aside. Are they a functioning member in society. It is easier and more enjoyable for him to zone out in the world of sweat and toil much like his school and training and work than to get to know me. Sorry, you can't reply to this topic. My loneliness is something that I try to manage with an antidepresants and cognitive therapy. Do you really want to wait two years to enjoy sex, fun, happiness, intimacy with someone. Dating a resident is hard - it was hard to realize that I can't come first, or even second, in this relationship right now. However, "medical families" can work. Remember she will only try to convert you because she thinks it is in your best interest.
Is the answer really just communication and uninterrupted alone time. So while I believe that, in fact, non-celestial families still can be together forever, I also think that there must be great merit to qualifying for the whole Enchiladaвwhich I perhaps cannot fully appreciate at this time. Jan 10, 0. I've moved to be with him for med school, then we moved again for residency and just moved again for fellowship. She suggested instead watching something that was produced by the church itself. I am dating a great guy who happens to be a very brilliant doctor going into residency very soon. The point to this story is that when he had any free time he wanted to spend it with me. It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. Single parent when I met her. The church really needs to tailor to more partial LDS families, imho.
The important thing is doing it together. Unless you convert she won't marry you, plain and simple. Do you have any knowlege of the bible. And yes, some people are unbelievably stupid about it. It sounds like you unfortunately ran into this guy at the wrong point in life. But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs. Would they have stayed in the church if dad was a member. What a bozza topic.
In the long run, being married to a nonmember has made me a better person. And Mormons were basically encouraged to marry other mormons. Just as secular marriages have problems, so do temple marriages. I made the decision not to have those things when I married a non-member. Lonliness is hard no matter the reason for it. But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults. If kids ever came into the picture though, I wouldn't want to be isolated from them psychologically or banned from walking my daughter down the aisle someday. Those were difficult both in terms of terminology and in understanding what was going on medically.