No tactless posts generalizing gender. I wana get married but im thinkin wether it wud be wise to get married after i finish studyin med. I am in my first year of medicine. T-1yr for me T-2yrs for him. I'm engaged to a med student we met in undergrad 2 years ago and I've watched him go from playful college kid to serious med student. For every lesson and sermon preached about loving everyone, there are one or two lessons on avoiding outsiders because they will destroy your eternity. Thank you for this blog.
Have you seen southpark episode on Mormons. Oh this is a great set of questions. He was also born in Russia during the 80s and did not come to the United States until so we sometimes deal with cultural differences as well as religious. Plan a day for them.
That being said, there are some facets of the religion that you should be aware of that will influence how she approaches both you and the relationship. All I can recommend, as a docs wife of nearly 30 years, is prayer or to book a few sessions with a psychologist. I've decided not to mention the CES letter or anything that could be considered "anti-mormon. I would do it all over again and thank my lucky stars that I found this man, that he loves, and that I love him. Ending sooner rather than later is much easier and less painful for everybody. We talked during the break and saw each other a few times before he moved, but he finally ended things a month into the break telling me "he loves me, but is no longer in love with me" and "doesn't think he can regain the passion.
I am very understanding about it and I'm fine with retaining some independence, especially at this stage in dating. Sorry ladies, but that's just doesn't cut it for me. Men and women must be willing to accept what they know to be true.
